1. what relationships between parents and their children could you call ideal ?
Ideal relationship between parents and their children should base on mutual understanding, doing duties without any reminding.
When everybody try for other don't waiting anything in response harmony and mutual understanding appear in family.
2.why do you think parents often feel neglected and children in their turn are often offended by excessive parents care and interference in their affairs ?
where in your opinion is the so called "golden middle" ?
Parents should understand that their children become adult after 14 years old. They should be treated after this age like adult people. Sometimes parents are connected too much with their children and see in children the only one goal in life. So there will be problems in this case.
Golden middle is when parents and children are friends. Each of them understands needs each other, can talk about everything.